Comments for Love, Life, and Relationships: Overcoming Emotional and Child Sexual Abuse http://ressurrection.wordpress.com The Official Blog Site of Ressurrection Wed, 15 May 2013 20:05:07 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ Comment on Should You Break Your Silence? by AuroraMorealist http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2013/05/15/should-you-break-your-silence/#comment-6809 Wed, 15 May 2013 20:05:07 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=5764#comment-6809 It’s what people do to keep the lies alive to themselves. It’s called collective denial in my world. So be it. It’s just what humans do, gang up on victims saying idiotic things like “he/she didn’t tell” or “are crazy” etc Please know I don’t blithely say this as if it should help you recover your whole self from your broken experiences. I say this because I have walked it, am walking it. So many more of us are out there than we ever knew, it is really quite frightening we survived at all. Write on, lady :)

]]> Comment on Committing Suicide: How Media Attention Makes People Pull The Trigger by Ressurrection http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2013/01/07/committing-suicide-how-media-attention-makes-people-pull-the-trigger/#comment-6808 Wed, 15 May 2013 19:55:11 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=5056#comment-6808 Totally agree, and thank you so much for commenting.

]]> Comment on Why Ressurrection Graves Introduces Child Sexual Abuse Grooming As A Crime by Should You Break Your Silence? | Love, Life, and Relationships: Overcoming Emotional and Child Sexual Abuse http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2012/10/26/why-ressurrection-graves-introduces-child-sexual-abuse-grooming-as-a-crime/#comment-6807 Wed, 15 May 2013 19:54:14 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=4429#comment-6807 […] You May Also Like: Why Child Sexual Abuse Grooming Must Become A Felony […]

]]> Comment on Committing Suicide: How Media Attention Makes People Pull The Trigger by annamariamaroni http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2013/01/07/committing-suicide-how-media-attention-makes-people-pull-the-trigger/#comment-6806 Wed, 15 May 2013 17:04:33 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=5056#comment-6806 Amazing article, your post is almost exactly how I feel. I think we need less media attention on horrible acts whether mass murder or murder suicide. I can’t say the last time I watched the news because how depressing it makes America sound. Great post and keep up the awareness that is needed, people need to look for help as a way out not taking their own life.

]]> Comment on The Bible and Child Sexual Abuse by Julie http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2011/07/22/what-does-the-bible-say-about-child-sexual-abuse-and-molestation-and-what-will-we-do-as-a-body-to-prevent-it-within-the-church/#comment-6801 Tue, 14 May 2013 10:22:09 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=1420#comment-6801 @Just, have you forgiven your cousin? Have you talked to him about it? Were you young, or did he think of it as sexual play rather than molestation (he’s wrong either way)? I guess I would talk to him first. He is probably suffering as well, knowing what he did. And then tell your parents — at least your mom. The longer it remains a secret, the more difficult it will be to reveal.

]]> Comment on The Rules of Engagement: The Biblical Truth About Dating, and Marriage by Ressurrection http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2012/03/08/what-does-the-bible-say-about-dating-courtship-engagement-betrothal-marriage-sex-before-marriage-and-living-together-before-marriage/#comment-6790 Sun, 12 May 2013 03:08:54 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=2990#comment-6790 Amen. Please do not have sex before marriage. As I’ve mentioned over and over, my intention is not to tell you to do so, it is simply to inspire you to take engagement seriously and realize that engagement is indeed marriage in scripture. I would actually have to teach this in order for someone to understand and follow it in a way that IS NOT worldly. You can not mix the world and the word. As for my “welcoming people who want to agree with me” statement, I’m not looking for you or anyone else’s approval so this is inaccurate. Ministers will say what I’ve said in this article across the pulpit. It is not my beliefs, this is really what the bible says. What I do encourage is that people who read this take it to the word. You don’t have to challenge me, seek God. Thanks! Res

]]> Comment on The Rules of Engagement: The Biblical Truth About Dating, and Marriage by pc ndaba http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2012/03/08/what-does-the-bible-say-about-dating-courtship-engagement-betrothal-marriage-sex-before-marriage-and-living-together-before-marriage/#comment-6787 Sat, 11 May 2013 20:28:52 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=2990#comment-6787 wel i must say reading da article was an eye opener da r things i agree wit like dat engagement is important but simply bcoz da word of GOD says wen we make promises we shud kip dem…so engagement is a promise which ought to be kept under holy circumstances…my question is with so many untrustworthy people how many times is one going to have sex before being legally married..REssurection i respect ur revelations and i believe u have something to say but as far as the blog is concerned it is my decision to maintain my beliefs dat NO SEX b4 mariage simply becos da HOLY spirit in me interprets it similar to what jason has bin trying to tell u n u just dont wana understandnd…u r only welcoming to ppl who agree wit u…full stop

]]> Comment on Dr. Benjamin Carson: Same-Sex Marriage and the correlation between Homosexuality, Pedophilia, and Bestiality by Ressurrection http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2013/04/11/dr-benjamin-carson-same-sex-marriage-and-the-correlation-between-homosexuality-pedophilia-and-bestiality/#comment-6776 Fri, 10 May 2013 16:00:31 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=5704#comment-6776 This article is not for you. You are clearly NOT a Christian so I’m not sure why you clicked on this article. If you can’t be nice, please get off of my website. Thank you.

]]> Comment on Dr. David Finkelhor: A Pedophile’s Advocate by Ressurrection http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2013/04/11/dr-david-finkelhor-a-pedophiles-advocate/#comment-6775 Fri, 10 May 2013 15:59:20 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=5721#comment-6775 How have I become part of the problem? I haven’t misinterpreted anything. The video is there, with his words and I happened to KNOW that he is in favor of the pro-pedophile’s movement to legalize sex with children by changing their demonic actions with being a “sexual orientation”. But, I’m part of the problem? Okay….Thanks for commenting but I wouldn’t find you to be a reliable person on the issue if you side with Finkelhor’s wishy washy attempt to support both sides in public.

]]> Comment on Dr. Benjamin Carson: Same-Sex Marriage and the correlation between Homosexuality, Pedophilia, and Bestiality by Sean http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2013/04/11/dr-benjamin-carson-same-sex-marriage-and-the-correlation-between-homosexuality-pedophilia-and-bestiality/#comment-6774 Fri, 10 May 2013 10:53:35 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=5704#comment-6774 actually this article made me sick. you are really a sick individual who needs help.

]]> Comment on Dr. David Finkelhor: A Pedophile’s Advocate by Sean http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2013/04/11/dr-david-finkelhor-a-pedophiles-advocate/#comment-6773 Fri, 10 May 2013 10:45:50 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=5721#comment-6773 Awesome response Ian. There is no doubt here that ‘Ressurrection’ , altho her intentions may be good, is part of the problem. 800 thumbs up.

]]> Comment on The Rules of Engagement: The Biblical Truth About Dating, and Marriage by Ressurrection http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2012/03/08/what-does-the-bible-say-about-dating-courtship-engagement-betrothal-marriage-sex-before-marriage-and-living-together-before-marriage/#comment-6751 Tue, 07 May 2013 22:04:56 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=2990#comment-6751 Hi Don, Thank you so much for your comment. I’m glad that I have you thinking! I do not use John 3 as a foundational scripture for salvation when I’m talking to someone and sharing the salvation process with them. I’m not sure where that came from but thank you again for your comment. Blessings, Ressurrection

]]> Comment on The Rules of Engagement: The Biblical Truth About Dating, and Marriage by Don http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2012/03/08/what-does-the-bible-say-about-dating-courtship-engagement-betrothal-marriage-sex-before-marriage-and-living-together-before-marriage/#comment-6750 Tue, 07 May 2013 21:32:35 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=2990#comment-6750 Interesting article, lots of opinion and information. It’s missing sound biblical convictions. While you used scriptures, John 3 and Romans 10 to support the salvation process…do note these are the most commonly used passages and equally misquoted. There’s no way the context of John 3 (and the entire book of John, and the gospels and the letters – including Rom. 10) arrives at believe and confess. It is part of salvation but falls away short…unfortunately, Christendom has accepted it as the path to salvation because Most of us never studied the bible and put too much trust on who ever gets on TV with a bible.

That said, You’ve got me thinking and I encourage you to think about your foundational doctrine on salvation. Thanks

]]> Comment on What does God say about Common Law Marriage? by Ressurrection http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2013/02/19/what-does-god-say-about-common-law-marriage/#comment-6724 Mon, 06 May 2013 03:12:47 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=5390#comment-6724 Thank you.

]]> Comment on What does God say about Common Law Marriage? by Alva http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2013/02/19/what-does-god-say-about-common-law-marriage/#comment-6713 Sun, 05 May 2013 15:53:13 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=5390#comment-6713 Quality articles is the key to invite the users to go to see the web site, that’s what this web site is providing.

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]]> Comment on The Rules of Engagement: The Biblical Truth About Dating, and Marriage by Ressurrection http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2012/03/08/what-does-the-bible-say-about-dating-courtship-engagement-betrothal-marriage-sex-before-marriage-and-living-together-before-marriage/#comment-6658 Thu, 02 May 2013 17:41:36 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=2990#comment-6658 Hello Synthia, I would encourage you to do additional study, it’s there. I’ve said it many times that betrothal is engagement and in the bible it is clearly written that to end the betrothal period, which is engagement you are required to get a bill of divorce. You will need to continue self-study because this is an online article and it’s difficult to offer an in person session online. It’s there.

]]> Comment on The Rules of Engagement: The Biblical Truth About Dating, and Marriage by Synthia Joseph http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2012/03/08/what-does-the-bible-say-about-dating-courtship-engagement-betrothal-marriage-sex-before-marriage-and-living-together-before-marriage/#comment-6657 Thu, 02 May 2013 17:31:59 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=2990#comment-6657 I have done a careful search of the scriptures you quoted. Unfortunately, none of them lends credence to your assertion that engagement is the same as marriage

]]> Comment on The Rules of Engagement: The Biblical Truth About Dating, and Marriage by Ressurrection http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2012/03/08/what-does-the-bible-say-about-dating-courtship-engagement-betrothal-marriage-sex-before-marriage-and-living-together-before-marriage/#comment-6654 Thu, 02 May 2013 14:49:40 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=2990#comment-6654 Hello Synthia, Please check out the scriptures that are in the article, they do provide the information that you are requesting. Please do a deeper study on “betrothal”. Thanks so much, Ressurrection

]]> Comment on The Rules of Engagement: The Biblical Truth About Dating, and Marriage by Synthia Joseph http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2012/03/08/what-does-the-bible-say-about-dating-courtship-engagement-betrothal-marriage-sex-before-marriage-and-living-together-before-marriage/#comment-6653 Thu, 02 May 2013 14:47:28 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=2990#comment-6653 Resurrection please can you support your claims with bible quotations? I haven’t seen anywhere in the bible where engagement is referred to as marriage

]]> Comment on The Rules of Engagement: The Biblical Truth About Dating, and Marriage by Ressurrection http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2012/03/08/what-does-the-bible-say-about-dating-courtship-engagement-betrothal-marriage-sex-before-marriage-and-living-together-before-marriage/#comment-6652 Thu, 02 May 2013 14:05:47 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=2990#comment-6652 These are the last days because I used scripture to show that betrothal is engagement and people should not idly get engaged? Wow I can think of a number of other things that are actually signs that the world could end, but not helping people to make better long term relationship choices that are WITHIN the will of God.

]]> Comment on The Rules of Engagement: The Biblical Truth About Dating, and Marriage by Ressurrection http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2012/03/08/what-does-the-bible-say-about-dating-courtship-engagement-betrothal-marriage-sex-before-marriage-and-living-together-before-marriage/#comment-6651 Thu, 02 May 2013 14:04:14 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=2990#comment-6651 In your comment you said, “Engagement is an agreement between a man and a woman, marriage on the other hand is that agreement being made in front of God and both families. Even the bible preaches honour ur parents so don’t you tink it will be a tad disrespectful to be engaged and carry on as if you were married?” What you say is not biblical. In your culture this may be the case, but it is not biblical. Engagement in the bible is marriage. That is the point of the END of the article. At the end of your comment you say, “I don’t tink it proper that you share this kind of information on a blog that different people have access to! Not every faith is as strong as your and a lot of people will be misled!” So because I’m sharing information to people you perceive to not have faith that is as strong as mine, I am misleading them. If this were true then God would not have designed pastors to help others understand true events, life application and to shepherd people who must be built up in their faith as they live for God. Lastly, I’m not hostile. I have not said anywhere in this blog that it applies to people who are motivated by lust and I believe THAT is the real issue. Everyone is afraid that by sharing this information people who are carrying out their lusts through fornication will feel that it is okay to do so but this article does not encourage unbelievers first of all, and it warns against lust making it very clear that we should not get engaged so quickly because entering engagement already connects us (spiritually) in marriage. To me most of these comments are derived from fear, and not a desire to know the word concerning these matters. Notice that I have 7 different things that I mention as steps to finding the one here but the only thing some people have picked out is that about sex. Sex is a hot button issue for most people, but it is not the point of this article. NOTE: IF PEOPLE READ THE ENTIRE ARTICLE THEY WILL UNDERSTAND THAT IF YOU DO 1-6 YOU WILL NOT MAKE THE CHOICE TO BE “ENGAGED” OUT OF LUST, OR CHOOSE “MARRIAGE” OUT OF LUST. Thanks for commenting.

]]> Comment on The Rules of Engagement: The Biblical Truth About Dating, and Marriage by Onome http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2012/03/08/what-does-the-bible-say-about-dating-courtship-engagement-betrothal-marriage-sex-before-marriage-and-living-together-before-marriage/#comment-6644 Thu, 02 May 2013 07:03:08 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=2990#comment-6644 I came across this articule last night and after reading through the comments I could not help commenting. Firstly I noticed resurrection, that you are not open towards other peoples opinion hence ur response towards Jason, which was may I point out hostile.
Secondly I don’t need biblical backing to prove this as sanctity before marriage is supported by almost every tribe in the world! Engagement is an agreement between a man and a woman, marriage on the other hand is that agreement being made in front of God and both families. Even the bible preaches honour ur parents so don’t you tink it will be a tad disrespectful to be engaged and carry on as if you were married?
Thirdly I don’t tink it proper that you share this kind of information on a blog that different people have access to! Not every faith is as strong as your and a lot of people will be misled! People who are led by lust will get engaged and cary out their desires cos its “okay”. Pls pray and be led more b4 u unknowly led ppl astray! God Bless

]]> Comment on Five Reasons Christians Support Same-Sex Marriage by Why Are We Celebrating Homosexuals? | O. W. Prince Ministries http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2013/04/26/five-reasons-christians-support-same-sex-marriage/#comment-6638 Wed, 01 May 2013 16:18:43 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=5742#comment-6638 [...] (This post was inspired by Dr. Ressurrection Graves’ post entitled “Five Reasons Christian Support Same-Sex Marriage.”) [...]

]]> Comment on Five Reasons Christians Support Same-Sex Marriage by Bishop O.W. Prince http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/2013/04/26/five-reasons-christians-support-same-sex-marriage/#comment-6636 Wed, 01 May 2013 15:13:16 +0000 http://ressurrection.wordpress.com/?p=5742#comment-6636 Reblogged this on “Rediscovering Biblical Christianity”.

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