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Homosexualtiy as Christians II

Posted on January 27, 2012 by Ressurrection

Discrimination I am a black, female, with long dreadlocks, I’m overweight (sexy though), and my name is long and looks foreign. My name is also “christian” so people assume. I have been looking for a job for some time now … Continue reading →

Posted in Family Ties, Relationships | Tagged Bible, Christ, christian, christianity, committment, conflicts, family, fear, feelings, girlfriend, GOD, homosexual, homosexuality, Lifestyle (sociology), men love men, postaday2011, Religion and Spirituality, ressurrection graves, same sex relationships, sex, Sexuality, Sin, woman, women love women | 4 Comments

Homosexuality as Christians I

Posted on January 26, 2012 by Ressurrection

The title suggests that we will be talking about Homosexuals who are Christians. I am not taking a side in this blog rather, I have a lot of unanswered questions. I want to start out here with a story that … Continue reading →

Posted in Family Ties, My thoughts, Relationships, Teen Dating Relationships: Violence and Emotional Wellness, The Parent Lounge Blog, The Power of Saying NO! | Tagged can christians be gay, Christ, christian, christianity, Chucky, committment, conflicts, courageous conversations, family, fear, feelings, girlfriend, GOD, HolySpirit, homosexual, homosexuality, Identity Crisis, men love men, postaday2011, Religion and Spirituality, ressurrection graves, same sex relationships, Satan, sex, will homosexual christians make it to heaven, woman, women love sex with other women, women love women | 2 Comments

January 12th – from Boyz II Men

Posted on January 12, 2012 by Ressurrection

January 12th, 1995 Do you possibly remember where in the world you were on this date? For some it is like trying to pinpoint Waldo. I used to get irritated with Waldo, but I always found him. So, I’m going … Continue reading →

Posted in Love, Relationships | Tagged agreement, Bill Gates, Boyz II Men, Cupid, family, fear, feelings, friendships, GOD, Hollywood Walk of Fame, Michael Jackson, Nathan Morris, relationships, Shawn Stockman | 2 Comments

Teen Blog Contributor: Words of Wisdom from a Teenage Perspective

Posted on January 6, 2012 by Ressurrection

Introduction Dae’Jah Cymone is a new Teen Contributor for my blog. She will talk about teen perspectives that can help us parents be more effective guides and leaders. In the spirit of collaboration, I have allowed Dae’Jah Cymone to come … Continue reading →

Posted in Teen Dating Relationships: Violence and Emotional Wellness, Teenage Moms, The Parent Lounge Blog, The Power of Saying NO! | Tagged Adolescence, agreement, arguments, Classroom, committment, communication, family, feelings, fighting, friendships, girlfriend, Holidays, Home, how to deal with your teenager, New Year, Parent, Teenaged Parents, what parents could learn from teenagers, words of wisdom from a teenage perspective | 8 Comments

Victim Blaming pushes away whom we Love

Posted on January 5, 2012 by Ressurrection

What is Victim Blaming and How Can You Support someone who has experienced pain from Child Sexual Abuse, Rape, Molestation, Domestic or Sexual Violence and/or Incest? Educated Minds Weigh In The word victim is a very controversial word. There are … Continue reading →

Posted in Family Ties, Relationships, Teen Dating Relationships: Violence and Emotional Wellness, Teenage Moms, Ten Ways to Safeguard your Child from Sexual Abuse, The Parent Lounge Blog, The Power of Saying NO! | Tagged Child sexual abuse, conflicts, family, fear, feelings, For colored girls, Head Coach, parents children fighting communication friendship caring advice high school waiting texting, Penn State, Sexual abuse, sexual assault, tyler perry, victim blaming, woman, www.identitycrisisbook.com | 15 Comments

My Letter to My Mother – Overcoming Emotional Abuse

Posted on January 4, 2012 by Ressurrection

I’ve written My Letter to my Younger Self, and immediately I thought of some other blogs I will write like it. It wasn’t until an encounter with my mother the other day, right before the New Year that I sought … Continue reading →

Posted in Family Ties, Long Suffering: The Face and Lifestyle of Homelessness, Relationships, Teen Dating Relationships: Violence and Emotional Wellness, The Parent Lounge Blog, The Power of Saying NO! | Tagged abuse, arguments, Child sexual abuse, christian, conflicts, domestic violence, family, family abuse, family dynamics, family dysfunctional relationships, fear, feelings, GOD, health, how to get over the pain of family relationships, how to manage family relationships, how to overcome emotional abuse from family, Interpersonal relationship, manipulation, Mental health, mother, new years resolution, overcoming emotional abuse, physical abuse, Psychological abuse, relationships, Sexual abuse, sisters, Support Groups, taking a stand against pain, Verbal abuse, victim blaming, www.identitycrisisbook.com | 32 Comments

Why You Should Go To Premarital Counseling Before Getting Engaged!

Posted on January 3, 2012 by Ressurrection

The Lonnie Hunter Show One afternoon I was listening to the Lonnie Hunter Show, a radio show on a Radio One station, Praise 104.1, owned by Cathy Hughes. Lonnie Hunter had a question of the day whereby callers could call … Continue reading →

Posted in Christian Living, Christianity, Love, Relationships | Tagged agreement, arguments, Cathy Hughes, christian, committment, communication, conflicts, do all christians need premarital counseling, do all religions get premarital counseling, fear, feelings, girlfriend, GOD, how to find a premarital counselor, Identity Christ Is: A Journey to Love, Interpersonal relationship, Intimate relationship, List of counseling topics, Lonnie Hunter, love, marriage, Mental health, Premarital sex, Radio One (company), relationship, relationships, religion, should I get pre marital counseling?, United States, we get along do we need counseling?, woman | 13 Comments

What I’ve Learned This Year III – MY BDAY/NYE BLOG

Posted on December 31, 2011 by Ressurrection

This New Year’s Eve think about all that was gained in this year, the knowledge, power and strength from understanding that you acquired through trial and error. How to attract a relationship that inspires the real you is a blog … Continue reading →

Posted in Love, Relationships | Tagged Baptism, birthday, Blog, Christ, christianity, church, conflicts, family, fear, feelings, friendships, GOD, Holidays, Ian Somerhalder, Jesus, New Year, New Year Eve, new years resolution, overcoming child sexual abuse, personal development, postaday2011, reading material for new year'eve, Religion and Spirituality, ressurrection graves, resurrection, Resurrection of Jesus, self love, self-worth, Sexual abuse, what to do if you stay in for new year's eve, www.identitycrisisbook.com | 4 Comments

What I’ve Learned This Year II: How business partners teach you about personal relationships

Posted on December 28, 2011 by Ressurrection

Another year has passed, and my birthday is approaching. Each December I ask myself the question, as usually ask my guests at my annual lunch or dinner party, “What have you learned this year?” I’m looking for all sorts of … Continue reading →

Posted in Long Suffering: The Face and Lifestyle of Homelessness, Love, Relationships | Tagged arguments, brand new, business, Christ, family, feelings, fighting, fresh perspectives, friendship, friendships, GOD, Hickey, Identity Crisis, Interpersonal relationship, Learning, life changes, love and God?, new beginnings, new life, new year's eve, overcoming child sexual abuse, overcoming homelessness, postaday2011, relationship, ressurrection graves, revelation, Romance, what happened this year to impact your beliefs about life | 11 Comments

Who are Child Sexual Abuse Predators?

Posted on December 24, 2011 by Ressurrection

The answer to this titled question is also one of the Ten Ways to Safeguard your Child from Sexual Abuse, which is a series or teaching that I take with me to campuses, churches, ministry groups and collectives around the … Continue reading →

Posted in Family Ties, Ten Ways to Safeguard your Child from Sexual Abuse, The Power of Saying NO! | Tagged a pattern of abuse among baptists, atlanta mega church, baptist preacher and child sexual abuse, Baptists, Child sexual abuse, Christ, christian, christianity, conflicts, eddie long, family, fear, feelings, GOD, Identity Christ Is: A Journey to Love, jerry sandusky, McDonald, new birth baptist church, postaday2011, relationships, ressurrection graves, Sexual abuse, sexual abuse in the baptist church, Universal Precautions | 34 Comments

Meeting The Parents: Holidays at Home

Posted on December 23, 2011 by Ressurrection

Are you ready to Meet the Fockers? Holidays are usually the time when the pressure is on. You are either important or you’re not. You have either been with your significant other long enough to meet the parents or they … Continue reading →

Posted in Love, Relationships, Teen Dating Relationships: Violence and Emotional Wellness, The Parent Lounge Blog | Tagged agreement, are the holidays a good time to meet the parents?, arguments, committment, conflicts, family, fear, feelings, friendships, girlfriend, how to make a good impression, how to make a good impression when meeting the parents, meeting the parents, parents children fighting communication friendship caring advice high school waiting texting, postaday2011, should I meet his or her parents?, when should I meet my boyfriend/girlfriend's parents, woman | 4 Comments

Would You Marry Someone If You Knew They Would Be Or Are Diagnosed With An AutoImmune Disease?

Posted on December 20, 2011 by Ressurrection

In every thought pattern of every wedding fantasy that has taken form in a woman’s mind, began at the first attraction to a boy. Most women are keenly connected to their role as a “help meet”, as God described Adam … Continue reading →

Posted in Love, Relationships, The Power of Saying NO! | Tagged agreement, AIDS, am I wrong for not wanting to marry a man or woman who has a disease?, arguments, Autoimmune disease, Child sexual abuse, committment, communication, conflicts, decisions, Disease, family, fear, feelings, fibromyalgia, GOD, health, HIV, how to choose a mate, Medicine, Multiple Sclerosis, Paula Patton, postaday2011, ressurrection graves, Thyroid disease, what is true love?, what makes a marriage?, what to consider when choosing a mate, who should I date, woman | 10 Comments

The Problem with No Sex Before Marriage

Posted on December 16, 2011 by Ressurrection

There are many people who are clicking on this link with the presumption that they know what I’m going to say- or who disagree that you should wait to be married before you know “the package”. I have been panting … Continue reading →

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How to parent a homeless child- Communication

Posted on April 5, 2011 by Ressurrection

How to parent a homeless child- Trust was the first in a series of blogs that I am writing to help parents who have suffered economically to build relationships with their children. This blog affectionately titled The Parent Lounge when … Continue reading →

Posted in The Parent Lounge Blog | Tagged agreement, arguments, committment, communication, conflicts, family, feelings, friendships, healthy, love, parents children fighting communication friendship caring advice high school waiting texting, postaday2011, relationships, ressurrection, ressurrection graves | Leave a comment

Teenager talks openly about Sex and Peer Pressure

Posted on March 30, 2011 by Ressurrection

I am a Fourteen year old black female who has decided to start doing a weekly topic of discussion; this will display my views and allow you to respond. Today I’d just like to express how I feel on a … Continue reading →

Posted in Relationships, Teenage Moms, The Parent Lounge Blog | Tagged abstinence, Adolescence, advice, agreement, birth control, Black people, Child development, christian, christianity, committment, communication, conflicts, Conversation, family, fear, feelings, friendships, girlfriend, GOD, health, high school sex prevention, Home, Jah, Parent, parents children fighting communication friendship caring advice high school waiting texting, Peer pressure, postaday2011, Question, relationship, Safe sex, sex, Sex education, Sexuality, staying a virgin, Text messaging, the parenting lounge, University of Virginia, Virginity | Leave a comment

Press Release: Announcer chosen to introduce Ressurrection Graves at Inaugural Book Signing

Posted on March 29, 2011 by Ressurrection

April 23rd, 2011 is a day that no one at the Arlington Central Library 1015 North Quincy Street Arlington Virginia, will ever forget, especially not Ressurrection Graves, author of the her debut memoir, Identity Crisis, Identity Christ Is: A Journey … Continue reading →

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Emotional Abuse- Why Name Calling Hurts

Posted on March 24, 2011 by Ressurrection

This week’s topic is Emotional Abuse. We have defined emotional abuse and now we are going to talk about a few of the defining topics. In the book, Identity Crisis, Identity Christ Is: A Journey to Love, I talk about … Continue reading →

Posted in Family Ties, Relationships, The Parent Lounge Blog | Tagged abuse, Anthropology, BCD, Christ, christian, christianity, communication, conflicts, Emotion, family, fear, feelings, health, Identity Christ Is: A Journey to Love, Identity Crisis, LCSW, love, Masters in Social Work, Maya Angelou, Mental health, MSW, physical abuse, postaday2011, Psychological abuse, relationships, ressurrection graves, Sarakay Smullens, sisters, Sociology, woman | 3 Comments

Emotional Abuse: Walking on Eggshells

Posted on March 24, 2011 by Ressurrection

Defining Emotional Abuse So far we have discussed a few types of Emotional Abuse and Psychological Abuse. We have identified abuse to be any behavior that is designed to control and subjugate another human being through the use of fear, … Continue reading →

Posted in Emotional Abuse, Family Ties, Relationships, Teen Dating Relationships: Violence and Emotional Wellness, The Parent Lounge Blog, The Power of Saying NO! | Tagged abuse, arguments, Bin bag, Christ, communication, conflicts, Emotion, family, fear, feelings, friendships, girlfriend, health, human, Identity Christ Is: A Journey to Love, Identity Crisis, Interpersonal relationship, Intimidation, love, Mental health, parents children fighting communication friendship caring advice high school waiting texting, postaday2011, Psychological abuse, relationships, ressurrection, ressurrection graves, sisters, Stay Tuned (film), Tamara, Verbal abuse, what is emotional abuse, woman | 4 Comments

Emotional Abuse: Stop Minimizing Me!

Posted on March 23, 2011 by Ressurrection

Good Morning: Last night, in my drunken sleepiness, I wrote this awesome article about Emotional Abuse and Name Calling. The problem is, I must have woke up with the same drunken sleepiness because I have misplaced/lost my purse somewhere between … Continue reading →

Posted in Emotional Abuse, Family Ties, Long Suffering: The Face and Lifestyle of Homelessness, Relationships, The Power of Saying NO! | Tagged abuse, Aggression, agreement, arguments, Christ, communication, conflicts, Denial, divorce, domestic violence, Emotion, emotional abuse, fear, feelings, fighting, friendships, GOD, health, Identity Christ Is: A Journey to Love, Identity Crisis, kindness, loyalty, man of valor, Mental health, minimizing, Monday, physical abuse, postaday2011, proverbs, Psychological abuse, ressurrection graves, Support Groups, virtuous woman | 3 Comments

What is Emotional Abuse?

Posted on March 21, 2011 by Ressurrection

I borrowed this article from the University of Illinois’ Counseling Center. I want to know, what the definition of emotional abuse is. Sometimes when we see it, we understand. Check out the information and I hope that it is of service to … Continue reading →