My Deitrick Haddon Response: Your Marriage Ending was A Choice

I sense that there is an attack on marriage in a variety of communities. In one of my old blog posts I mentioned that there is a group of homosexuals who said that they want same-sex marriage to be legalized so that they can lobby for marriage to be abolished altogether.

Marriage is a covenant from God and man can not make it insignificant. We are seeing the reality shows use the word “wives” when, on most of the shows where the word is used, these women are not a “wife” in the position of the word.

Likewise, we see people in the Christian community who are walking away from their marriages for irreconcilable differences, infidelity and quite frankly drama that we don’t really need to know about.

In the latest of divorces are Deitrick and Damita Haddon. Deitrick uploaded a picture of him and his new boo-thang with his brand new baby on New Year’s Eve (my birthday).

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After he began receiving negative comments from people who are clearly in shock, he decided to take his business to Facebook and blast Isaac Carree for sleeping with his wife and breaking up his marriage.

The whole thing I find disgusting and I could have done without this knowledge. What I appreciate is Tye Tribbett who had his own extra-marital foolishness and how he humbled himself, repented publicly and recommitted himself to his marriage.

From what I hear, the Betty and Coretta movie was a fictional movie but portrayed the lives of two women whose men were saving the world. When a friend called me, and we discussed this article she chimed in saying that all she kept thinking was that their homes were not in order and they needed to go back home. And, why did I need to know that Martin Luther King Jr. was unfaithful? There is no point to this disclosure.

Day One Woman

Day One Woman

Ministers are required to have their homes in order, and by home I mean the place they sleep at night where their wife/husband and children dwell. There is nothing wrong with ministry or your career but when it seems that your relationships are not in alignment with your career, go home. It is important that you become one and walk in your oneness.

In response to the admission of Deitrick Haddon confusion I want to say this:

Isaac Carree did not MAKE you get a divorce. Divorce was an option for you and Damita. Infidelity is sin, but there was decision after the sin, to walk away. In addition to stating that you divorced Damita because of her infidelity, you have tried to excuse your own infidelity with the fact that you almost committed suicide twice. I totally understand being at a low point in life but sex in your new relationship which produced a child was also a choice.

To say anything different is to tell your listeners that they can do the same. Instead an admission (to those who follow you) not the entire world on Facebook and Instagram, would have been sufficient – because there is a baby (evidence). And, you have to know that those who are spiritually sensitive can sense what’s going on in your music without you ever saying a word-ever. It is commendable that you haven’t ministered in a year, and I would encourage you to stay seated until you are healed and whole.

Lastly, the media who are gossipers and backbiters are bullies. You owe no man an explanation for your personal affairs, but you do owe God your integrity. If you need to sit down, do that. There is a difference between secrets, scandals and your business.

A secret is something that is being held that will harm others. A scandal is when the wrong person exposes the secret. In Deitrick Haddon’s case, it sounds like it was self-inflicted. But the truth is, most things are not a “secret” they are just not someone else’s business.

You have to protect your marriage. Love covers a multitude of sin. This scripture never said that someone can abuse you in any way or constantly do the same sin – as there would be no evidence of repentance. No one can tell you that you made the right or a poor choice in getting divorced, only you know your situation but do not encourage others to do the same. As leaders, the choices we make impact generations.

When leaders realize that you can not be a leader without possessing influence, perhaps they will take the time to become whole in order to handle opposition in a way that does not divide God’s people. – Ressurrection Graves

Here is what one commenter named “Jeena” from PraiseDC had to say about this foolishness:

I don’t know how I got subscribed to you guys but the last time I checked, I thought you guys were suppose to be promoting Christian and spiritual related news and music. Not gossip in the Christian community. It disgusts me that such a station would promote and email such news out like this. I think its borderline disgusting in general for people to call out their fellow human being in such a way. We all make mistakes. Grow up and stop posting up pointless news. I think this is something that should be left up to only Deitrick Haddon, Isaac Carree, and whoever was involved. Not the public (at least not for gossip purposes).

And, we’ll end with Isaac Carree’s response which I felt was the most appropriate thing said all day. If you do not understand his comment he says that everyone should mind their business while Deitrick figures out how to stop being foolish.

“It has been brought to my attention that Deitrick Haddon recently made some very hurtful statements about me. I, as well as my wife, are both shocked and confused by Deitrick’s actions. It saddens me that he would seek to engage in mudslinging with me, especially because he and I have spoken openly and honestly about this, even long before his allegations. While I have no desire to drag these personal conversations into a public forum, he and I both know what the truth is. Still, I pray God’s best for him and his family. This weighs heavily on me, but I am grateful for the opportunity to speak from my heart. This will be the only statement that I will make regarding this situation.”

David and Tamela Mann

David and Tamela Mann

I am really praying for marriage in general, that people come back to love and understand the covenant and purpose of marriage. I am praying that those who are married will talk about why they got married often and are focused on their purpose in life as one. Love is an extremely beautiful, supernatural thing. And, married people who have gotten divorced have remarried to each other too. Selah.


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41 Responses to My Deitrick Haddon Response: Your Marriage Ending was A Choice

  1. Wow…this is news to me about Dietrick. It’s sad, but i agree…infidelity is a sin but people make choices to divorce. A wrong plus a wrong doesn’t make it right…but people love justifying their behaviours especially when they are hurt and broken and emotional. May they find God in this mess and become real with themselves and learn to be honest with themselves by not watering down their actions and claim responsiblity for the choices that they make.

    Bless you for this post

    • Amen. I really hesitated to write this post because I did not want for someone else (like you for instance) to hear it first hand from me. I hope though that I did not appear to speak in an ill manner but to uplift marriage and to encourage that people keep their business to themselves.

      • I think you did a great Job of it. Marriage is sacred. It is an important union and I don’t think people have the right to trivialize it and make it seem like “stuff happens, the end”.

        Two broken individuals dealt with it in a terrible way…they aren’t the first to make such mistakes…but I agree it’s not my business, however, because they are ministers…they need to be accountable for their actions and call it out for what it is like Tye Tribbet did, rather than be in denial of their actions by adding justifications to continue doing what they are doing which is hurting themselves and other people involved even more.

        The Body of Christ doesn’t need confusion, it needs honesty.

  2. lajacks says:

    After the first Facebook post, all I could say was, “Why is he doing this?” It looks he did it to generate a “buzz”. According to “the old black church” website, Deitrick is angling for a reality show. Damita didn’t cheat on him with Issac Caree. Deitrick just chose his words carefully to make it look that way to keep people interested in this story. Interested enough to get a reality show. Lawd… The truth seems to be that Deitrick is angry at Issac because he is the one who told Damita about Deitrick’s affair.

  3. ljordan says:

    I love the way you presented the article. This entire saga left my head spinning. I could not imagine a Christian Leader doing such horrible things to another Christian Leader not to mention airing his dirty laundry. The harm that he has done to the church deserves an apology from Deitrick Haddon. I pray that he put his marriage plans and ministry on hold until he is healed and whole. If you love someone you should want to give the a healed and whole person not an obviously broken person who has lost their way.

  4. kindwords says:

    Deitrick seems bitter and mentally unstable. Mental illness is in the body of Christ also. In the meantime, I don’t want to hear your music. Live the life that you sing about ” ………WWJD…….he wouldn’t do this nonsense

  5. Santy says:

    I really don’t like dis, I LOVE it. Make sense. A lot of christians don’t know the purpose of MARRIAGE and it bothers My heart that they are always falling victims. God help us.

  6. joseyphina says:

    Great post there. 🙂

  7. I am a great fan of deitrick haddon and damita’s too. I was shocked when i saw the post of facebook, all i could think about was how a news like this could get out as such. I also want to appreciate how you handled this issue, we should start seeing issue from the positive end and be willing to help our fellows in getting out of the mud(gal 6:1). Thank you…

  8. latania tate says:

    Wow!! Whose to say Deitrick is not telling the truth. Was anyone there? Deitrick defended himself like any human being would. I believe him. The only one hiding is his ex hmmm. As for isaac the last 2 times I saw him perform recently there was no anointing in my opinion and some others. I’m glad he said something I thought is what his fault at first too. I would divorce a cheater too. Once a cheater always a cheater. God can’t control every decision we make no matter who we are married,single, pastor trust no relationship. You can choose to stay and work it out but it will never be the same. Amazing how everyone has an opinion about Deitrick,most of them negative and Deitrick is doing better than everybody on this page lol. He’s still blessed,highly favored and anointed. So glad God is in control and not man

    • You seem to have a strong opinion. Who says that Deitrick Haddon is doing better than the people on this blog post? And, I never said he was lying about Damita. I know I did not say that in my post. I understand that you’re a fan but if we want to be honest Deitrick did not help himself by snitching on his wife. Additionally her cheating doesn’t mean that he did not cheat, it just means that he either wasn’t caught or she is choosing to keep her mouth closed. In fact, having a baby while still married is adultery whether you’re separated or not. I’m responding to your comment, not judging him. I think the point is that we should not be able to come to any conclusion about this, and the only reason we are having this conversation is because he gave himself a self-inflicted wound. I do not have anything against Deitrick but I would never sit under his teaching and while I think he has a great voice, I won’t listen to his music in order to usher the presence of the most high. After “Clean this House” I feel the same about the other guy – who sounds like R. Kelly. All I can think of is a 15 year old girl peeing on him. It’s not okay. Just my thoughts. Still, I hope you understand that this is not about “fault” as you mention. It takes away from the body of Christ to have these conversations, and people need to discern things. Discernment is a gift we should operate in instead of being spell bound by gospel “stars”. God didn’t intend for us to have an industry that mirrors the world. It has become entertainment and not what music was created for, worship.

      • Shawnie says:

        I read your article, your replies and I loved them all until I reached the Isaac Caree and R. Kelly comparison. I didn’t understand why the image of pee and a 15 year old girl would enter your mind from one particular song that sounds like an R. Kelly song… (That Comment Was Messy In Itself). If the words in the song would’ve resonated with you more than the image of Pee, I’m sure you would have left it out.

        • Hello, thanks for commenting. I said exactly what I meant. I can think of 100 other songs that speak about being cleansed that do not make me think of R. Kelly. My point is that many of the songs that are coming out, are not necessarily written or produced under the anointing. People are living any-kind-of-way and as a result, you can tell within the music. R. Kelly is a child predator who never had to answer for his actions. He is attractive, gifted, and will continue to make amazing music however it does not condone his predatory behavior, and it does not mean that because he’s producing gospel music he is saved or can identify with the lyrics he is writing. Again, I can think of 100 other songs that talk about being “clean” and “whole”. Many people believe that channeling R. Kelly by Isaac Carree was too much. I never said that song didn’t sound good, but I’m not looking for what “sounds good”, I’m after the anointing.

    • Theluvlyone says:

      I know that’s right once a cheater always I believe deitrick to and he’s very very anointed I don’t no what happen but to many people is going against d.h. I love him no one knows and no one is perfect.

  9. Doris Reed says:

    i do not have the right to judge (Mat 7:2) only God. Although I am greatly tempted to do so. I remember that I too have made mistakes and God forgave me each time even when the offended person did not.. However, God will judge his leaders (Ezekiel 11) we do not have the right to do so. Only pray for them and learn from their example.

    • This is an inaccurate view of the scripture and is not relevant to us. This scripture is often used out of context in order to make one’s behavior acceptable. I highly encourage you to join my membership website where I talk about biblical doctrine.

      • Juli says:

        remember the devil can use the Word of God to make one justify their sin but this what the scripture says…
        Matthew 7:15 “You can identify them by their fruit, that is, by the way they act”. so we can tell that they are not walking right by what they do/ their actions (living in sin)
        John 12:46-48 “I have come as a light to shine in this dark world, so that all who put their trust in me will no longer remain in the dark. 47 I will not judge those who hear me but don’t obey me, for I have come to save the world and not to judge it. 48 But all who reject me and my message will be judged on the day of judgement by the truth I have spoken”.
        so the Word itself is what we base on to tell who our fellow believer are… just by their works
        God knew so many complications will arise in marriages, divorce used to happen alot! with worse circumstances than this… He knows we are human beings…. never did that ever skip His mind especially when he wrote in malachi 2:15- 16 “15 Didn’t the LORD make you one with your wife? In body and spirit you are his.b And what does he want? Godly children from your union. So guard your heart; remain loyal to the wife of your youth. 16“For I hate divorce!” says the LORD, the God of Israel. “To divorce your wife is to overwhelm her with cruelty,c” says the LORD of Heaven’s Armies. “So guard your heart; do not be unfaithful to your wife.”
        the Word continues to say (luke 16:18) -“For example, a man who divorces his wife and marries someone else commits adultery. And anyone who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery.”
        and in all circumstances “22Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
        25Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her (ephesians 5)
        God is perfect but man is not ..that’s why forgiveness is essential….in the old testament we see how God delivered and brought back the Israelites who had abandoned him for other gods..he forgave them and made them His won again…that’s the picture He wants (especially in marriages) if we claim to be His.
        lets just pray that God restores all broken relationships so that we live a life that God has called us live..WE NEED REVIVAL!!! we need to cry out for that… our God is a forgiving God IF we repent with a sincere hearts AND turn away from our wicked ways….

    • Doc says:

      If once a cheater always a cheater. Then how will anyone get Saved? That not what Jesus said to the adulterous woman. God is able to keep us from falling but we all do and we are grateful for is grace and mercy that lead us back to righteousness.

      • God forgive me and others for poor choice of words people do change and not forgetting that on the out side it may look like many things and because it looks that way don’t always mean that is so God love us all he forgives

        • God absolutely forgives us, but even in forgiveness we can be held accountable. I think you all suppose that my focus is on Deitrick. You want to defend him. You could use anyone’s name there and my comments would be the same. My focus is not on him. God does forgive us when we repent. Repent means to turn away from. So, we do have a corresponding action that must take place. Thank GOD for forgiveness. 🙂

  10. Delivered From Religious People says:

    Only the two people in a marriage can determine it they want to get divorced or stay together once the marriage covenant is broken through infidelity. Others need to mind their own business.

    • Thanks for commenting “Delivered from Religious People”, I definitely covered that in the above statements and article. However you’re missing an important piece, married people have the ability to determine their level of privacy by not outing each other on social networks. I think married couples who mind their own business, will not present drama and disenchant people from Christ with their personal lives.

    • Thanks for commenting “Delivered from Religious People”, I definitely covered that in the above statements and article. However you’re missing an important piece, married people have the ability to determine their level of privacy by not outing each other on social networks. I think married couples who mind their own business, will not present drama and disenchant people from Christ with their personal lives.

  11. tla says:

    Thanks Ressurrection…

  12. Elusi says:

    It is heartbreaking when people that are ministering through one of the most powerful gifts of God – music! so blatantly breaks His commands.

    I love all these artists mentioned in the article, they are incredibly blessed with amazing abilities but they cut their own ministries short by engaging in adultery. I have to admit that I was tempted to go in that direction too when I met Isaac. I had to use all power of prayer and the Holy Spirit to withstand his advances, so I know what it’s like to be tempted – but God always provides a way out if we desperately seek it!

    And you’re right, there is an attack on marriage – we need to keep watching out for each other – holding each other to the highest standard and fervently praying for the restoration of marriage and integrity of our fellow human beings, instead of resorting to judgement or resentment.

  13. Doc says:

    There is one simple truth. The bible ask is anyone good and then answered it self and said, no not one. Jesus said, don’t call him good only God is good. The bible says even the very elect would fall if God doesn’t come soon.

    But what I love most is the bible also says let him without sin cast the first stone. So lets not judge but pray for all rather single or married. What WWJD in this case just ask the woman who was found in adultery or the woman he talked to at the well

    I thank God for his love and forgiveness. A sinner is a sinner regardless of the type. So ask yourself have you lied, stole, kept change or an item you did not get charge for or cheated in some way. Like lust of the heart even if you did not do the physical act. or perhaps been envious or just a little jealous.

    Peter once asked Jesus in John 20: Then Peter, turning about, sees the disciple whom Jesus loved following; which also leaned on his breast at supper, and said, Lord, which is he that betrays you? 21Peter seeing him said to Jesus, Lord, and what shall this man do? 22Jesus said to him, If I will that he tarry till I come, what is that to you? follow you me.

    All we should be doing is praying for those who are hurt confuse or lost that they find peace, their way and God.

    The bible says if one sins and confess and willing to sin no more restore such a one back to righteousness. Does not that mean continue in the calling or work praying continually for God to help you stay free?

    Just ask your self this question have you ever asked God for forgiveness? Did you expect he would do it just because you ask? Well as the bible says do unto other as you would have them do unto you.

    Be Blessed

    • I appreciate the scriptures that you used, but they are used out of context of this situation. This is why I have created a new membership website so that I can support others in dissecting the word. You can just throw scriptures on a situation. You have to know the truth intention of the scripture when it was written. The bible also says that we can just a situation, and that is what I did because I don’t want the body of Christ to believe that his actions should be duplicated. I think this article is doing the job because people are able to see that divorce was a choice, and not his only option. Relationships are intimate and we should protect ourselves from making decisions based on media driven content.

      • And what context was this written in? What was the text actually talking about? What relationship to the text are you extracting which relates directly to Deitrick Haddon or this blog article? There are many scriptures, and many things that I could say, but I see that you’re not receptive at this moment. The bottom line is that when we are looking at the word, we don’t just take the words. We need to pray, and allow the holy spirit to illuminate the word for us. We need to go back in time, in the scene of the text to understand the purpose, and plan for that particular message. I can assure you, that it was not to excuse behaviors. I say this in love. This is what I encourage for all, that we dissect the text, and understand it as it was actually written before we apply it to today. Blessings, Res

  14. NELLY says:

    stop people stop!! DO NOT JUDGE LEST YOU YOURSELVES ARE JUDGED ALSO God is not in the business of condemnation but instead He wants to heal set free and deliever..It is the work of Satan that wants people to feel like there is no hope and no repentance of sin Jesus died and rose again for situations such as this..futhermore he who is without sin cast the first stone who on this blog or better yet in this world can do that..exactly not a single soul. If all have asked for forgiveness and repented with sincere hearts to the Father they are FORGIVEN…we all have sinned and fallen short understand that the enemy goes hard after Gods anointed and appointed ones which means they REALLY need to be prayed for and lifted up by fellow christians and so with that being written instead of condeming and judgeing this man and this situation pray for these people like true men and women of the kingdom should!

  15. watchman brown says:

    This is a time for repentance and prayer! If those of us who know how to tap into the spirit you would be able to see what really happened here. The word of God tells us to put on the whole armor of God. We live in a spirit filled world and when we (Saints of God) play the parts of these secular roles in movies we have just open up our spirit to these worldly demons! If you pay attention to Blessed and Cursed; also a Beautiful Soul you would see that Deitrick has taken on that spirit that he played in the movie. First of all to even have your wife play a part has a gold-digging worldly woman and than the part where he is in a strip club, Is out the will of God! Then the next movie just open him up even more. I’m not here to judge Deitrick, because I love him as a person. He is a very anoited man of God. He just let his guard down and was blinded by that seducing spirit.We have all falling somewhere in our walk with Christ even has leaders. Know is the time to make intercession and pray him back on board. The enemy would come and blind the people of God so that we would keep talking about him to keep us from praying for him as the word commanded. He has a soul and if he is blinded and weak then let the strong bare the infirmities of the weak. Pray for a spirit of repentance, transparency, mind transformation and deliverance for him. He is to anoited to by sifted like this

  16. Jada says:

    I am late on all of this bcuz the truth was swept under the rug. Moreover, I was at a funeral for a Bishop in early 2012 at which Deitrick sang, and even then there were obvious signs of something(i.e. his ringless weddi.g finger). My point here is this, the truth back then would have kept mess down. It only became a bigger deal than it really is because it was swept under the rug.
    Unfortunately bcuz the infidelity issue opened up issues of his own, it all came out. There used to be a saying that, “if you don’t want others to tell your biz then don’t hang your dirty laundry in their yard if you don’t want it washed because when theirs gets dirty and exposed (if for no other reason than just being in close proximity) all the dirt on the line will have to come clean”. Also, now that Deitrick is married again, given that the rumors were going to swirl anyway about he & his, it made sense that he would choose to just put it out there. God allows for anger, but not sin and from the way it seems he had every right after 2 yrs to be angry(esp. given they were married far longer than two yrs)While it is true that things could have been done better, ever action has a consequence, ESPECIALLY when you are a public figure, and even moreso when involved with “the church”. That said, though I disagree with the way that Deitrick brought the situation to light, I agree with the fact that he did. It was indeed his business to tell, and infidelity enabled that. Now if the two involved didn’t want to tell it, well unfortunately they had no more control over Deitrick telling than Deitrick had over their affair. No, two wrongs do not make a right, but let’s be clear on what is right, what is wrong, and what is opinion, afterall that was his wife. Maybe we all would do differently had it been our spouses? Maybe not. Furthermore,

  17. TONY Mary says:

    Then the man said, « The woman whom You gave to be with me ,she gave me, of the tree ,and I ate ». Gen 3 :12
    Then Joseph her husband, being a just man , and not wanting to make her public example, was minded to put her away secretly. Matt 1 : 19

    They said to Him, « Teacher, this woman was caught in adultery, in the very act…such should be stoned. But what do You say ? » John 8 : 4-5

    When Jesus had raised Himself…He said to her, « Woman, where are those accusers of yours ? Has no one condemned you ? … And Jesus said to her, « Neither do I condemn you ; go and sin no more » John 8 : 10 -11

    ‘’ Return, backsliding Israel,’’ says the Lord ‘’I will not cause my anger to fall on you. For I am merciful,’’ says the Lord. ‘’I will not remain angry forever. Only acknowledge your iniquity ,… Return,O backsliding children’’, says the Lord ‘’ For I am married to you…’’ Jeremiah 3 : 12-14

    And the Lord said to him, ‘’Go through the midst of the city, through the midst of Jerusalem, and put a mark on the foreheads of the men who sigh and cry over all the abominations that are done within it. …Utterly slay old and young men, maidens…but do not come near anyone on whom is the mark ; and begin at my Sanctuary…’’ Ezekiel 9 : 4-6
    NOW HERE IS THE POINT : Let us not be distracted by our own feelings. We, people of God, can be so emotive that we become mislead by so much astonishment, sadness, anger and all the stuff , that we loose the Main Point for the moment : Intercession. The Lord is not interrested in the pampering of our own emotions , in such circumstances, rather , we are to care for His Business, not our carnal, flesly, and ungodly feelings. Notice the Lord says « Go through the midst of the city, through the midst of Jerusalem, and put a mark on the foreheads of the men who sigh and cry over all the abominations that are done… » That is intercession. Do we cry in repentance and intercession for the restauration of our Brothers who fall ? That’s what the Lord wants. In another hand lets point what He add « Utterly slay old and young men, maidens…but do not come near anyone on whom is the mark ; and begin at my Sanctuary… » All those who didn’t cry were to be slain, and please THERE WERE NOT PEOPLE FROM THE OUTSIDE , since God said « …begin at my Sanctuary… » What a frightening thing.
    The children of God at the front row ( Pastors , artists etc) are so much exposed, and constitute a major target for the devil ‘’… Then the Lord saw it , and it displeased Him That there was no justice He saw that there was no man, And wondered that there was no intercessor ; ISAIAH 59 :15-16
    Be blessed

  18. T Maybe says:

    Through all the reading I have YET to read where it’s TRUE that Damita committed adultery and definitely with Isaac Carree. IMHO seems Dietrich just needed a “reason” / “person” to justify his fall into temptation. A friend can pray and fast with you to help you out of your depression, hurt, fragile state but SEX is and will NEVER be an acceptable way to avenge hurt. PERIOD!

  19. Unique says:

    Wow Deitrick Haddon is sending the wrong message in this tv show he’s not humble at all a master’s degree in Divinity. isn’t what he needs to be throwing out there because the scripture says ever learning but never coming into the knowledge of the truth,if he really knew who he is in Christ now of this foolishness would be on the internet at all!!

  20. patson m chillz says:

    This issue has affected me,rely love these guys..God heal them.

  21. I am concerned about what really happened because I don’t think your judging when you speak the truth. My main concern is that I know the facts before I draw conclusions. It was nice to get an explanation from Detrick even though he is taking the victim route. I personally choose to believe that in a marriage it takes two responsible people to own up to the wrongs they committed. If my spouse cheated I probably would tell the whole world because I am very emotional. I would not be able to hide the pain. My questions are ( I wish Detrick and Damita would answer) I hate guessing. Why did it take Detrick so long to reveal this cheating if it really happened.? When I look at interviews from when this new wife was pregnant Damita seems to be totally unaware of marital problems she even speaks about her desire to concentrate on starting a family with Detrick. What are the problems Detrick claims they were having in the beginning of the marriage? If they were so bad why remain married to someone that you have no children with for 15 years? I personally don’t believe that Detrick was totally innocent looking at the way he is presenting himself right now. But I have to go with it because at this point for some odd reason Damita is choosing not to speak. I have a daughter that from the time she was able to talk when we catch her in a sticky situation she always chooses not to comment. If she did cheat that does not make her a bad person that means she has a testimony. I would turn my tragedy into a ministry for the Gospel devil would not get the glory in my situation . All of this hush and keeping things covered is from Satan he love to twist your mind making you view wrong as right, right is wrong. Now when you speak truth the world call you negative or they say “don’t judge”, well if MLK and all those people who spoke up and fought for things in the world thought how we do today, we would’ve never made it this far we need to take off the mask. All I’m really trying to say is people will draw conclusions when you remain silent. I would think that a Christian would care more about their reputation . Maybe the producers of the show are paying her to be silent to have a Season 2 where she gets paid to cause some drama? I don’t know another speculation . Damita Speak!

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